{"id":182,"date":"2016-06-11T11:08:29","date_gmt":"2016-06-11T17:08:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/home.leeandkristin.net\/rll\/?p=182"},"modified":"2016-07-12T20:47:07","modified_gmt":"2016-07-13T02:47:07","slug":"brock-isnt-the-only-monster","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.leeandkristin.net\/rll\/?p=182","title":{"rendered":"Brock isn&#8217;t the only monster"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I agree that Brock&#8217;s behavior was unacceptable and that his sentence was unjustly reduced. It&#8217;s pretty appalling. But let&#8217;s not fool ourselves into thinking he&#8217;s the only one. If you&#8217;re at a party with 20 people, chances are that between one and five of them are fully capable of doing something really, really stupid, *especially* if they&#8217;re getting drunk or high. One of those people might even be you.<\/p>\n<p>Knowing how likely such things are, why on Earth would anyone willingly incapacitate him or herself to the point where they become an easy mark or a loose cannon? Do you really think you ought to be able to trust everyone around you&#8211;or even yourself&#8211;if you render yourself completely helpless or out of control? Says who? We aren&#8217;t owed charmed lives. Bad things happen to good people, even when we&#8217;re being careful. And yes, good people can do bad things, especially if they render themselves senseless on purpose.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s entirely possible for both victim and perpetrator to be responsible for their actions and the results of those actions. One&#8217;s guilt does not magically let the other off the hook.<\/p>\n<p>Know when to stop. And if you aren&#8217;t certain that you can, or if you can&#8217;t trust the source of what you&#8217;re drinking or taking, don&#8217;t even start. Or be prepared to pay a steep price for your lack of self control.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I agree that Brock&#8217;s behavior was unacceptable and that his sentence was unjustly reduced. It&#8217;s pretty appalling. But let&#8217;s not fool ourselves into thinking he&#8217;s<span class=\"read-more-link\"><a class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.leeandkristin.net\/rll\/?p=182\">Read More<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[40,17],"tags":[56,16],"class_list":["post-182","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-culture","category-politics","tag-crime","tag-parenting"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":false,"thumbnail":false,"medium":false,"medium_large":false,"large":false,"1536x1536":false,"2048x2048":false,"miteri-cp-520x400":false,"miteri-cp-450x450":false,"miteri-cp-700x700":false,"miteri-cp-800x500":false,"miteri-cp-1200x580":false},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/www.leeandkristin.net\/rll\/?author=1"},"uagb_comment_info":0,"uagb_excerpt":"I agree that Brock&#8217;s behavior was unacceptable and that his sentence was unjustly reduced. It&#8217;s pretty appalling. But let&#8217;s not fool ourselves into thinking he&#8217;sRead More","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.leeandkristin.net\/rll\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/182","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.leeandkristin.net\/rll\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.leeandkristin.net\/rll\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.leeandkristin.net\/rll\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.leeandkristin.net\/rll\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=182"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.leeandkristin.net\/rll\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/182\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":183,"href":"https:\/\/www.leeandkristin.net\/rll\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/182\/revisions\/183"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.leeandkristin.net\/rll\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=182"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.leeandkristin.net\/rll\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=182"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.leeandkristin.net\/rll\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=182"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}